Monday, February 27, 2012

jettin'

This morning I ate breakfast at a bagel shop in Manhattan. This evening's dinner was from Monicals in Princeton. In an alternate universe it is my first week back in Seoul.

New York was good though. My sister is awesome. In case you missed it-
For those of you unable to make it to NYC in the next few days, I am keeping my fingers crossed that they will be performing it closer to home sometime soon. Because even with mono/a cold/exhaustion/who knows what but something was plaguing her, she killed it.
I'm now watching The Voice, and I can't help but think Eliza is better than all these schmucks.

So I saw some of the NY sights, ate some food, saw one of my best Bordeaux friends Donnie, and ate more food. It was good.

BTW, I don't know what happened with that last post. I guess I am still confused by blogger. I started writing something, wasn't feeling it, so I stopped. I had a few paragraphs written. They didn't get posted, only the subject. But I didn't mean to post anything.

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Has your child mastered the use of safety scissors?

I'm not sure if I posted this already or only thought about it, but I've said before Koreans take education seriously.

Korea was my first experience with kindergartners. I often felt bad for these little 5 and 6 year olds, and wished they could be more like kids. However, I was constantly amazed at their abilities. I had to remind myself that they were not native English speakers, and they were kindergartners. Especially when I taught my second year students, I could converse with them and change little about my voice. They understood English. They could easily read books in English. They could write in English. They wrote book reports and diaries IN ENGLISH. These are KOREAN kindergartners. They don't use the same alphabet. THEY READ AND WRITE IN ENGLISH!

I've subbed a few days in different kindergarten classrooms around here. What I have seen has really made me think that American parents need to take some tips from the Korean parents, and that the American school system needs to revamp their kindergarten curriculum, and probably their school system in general.
I taught in a K classroom around Thanksgiving. The kids did not know their letters. They could not read a lick. Math was not even mentioned. Their mid morning snacks were things like store bought cookies and fruit snacks. They had two solid hours of "centers" aka playtime, in addition to a half hour lunch, two recesses, and gym. Basically the only "work" they did was a few coloring, cut, and glue pages. And they could barely do that. This was late November. They had been in school from 8-3 since mid-late August. What had they been doing for 7 hours a day the past 3 months? I'm not sure, but I know it wasn't reading or math.
I got called this week to sub two days in another K class. I was excited, because I got to see a different school's kindergarten program, and a few months had passed. I thought maybe the class I'd taught back in November was just an exceptionally bad class. Nope.
About 3/4 of these kids could BARELY write numbers, and at least 1/3 of them could not write their own names. A few months away from first grade, and they cannot write their names?!? Am I the only one who sees a problem with this? At least we did some math at this school. In two days, we did 10 basic addition problems, and as I just said, the majority of the kids really struggled to write numbers. As far as easily identifying numbers over 19, forget it. We did some reading flashcards. These few months away from first grade students were sort of reading words like it, red, you, and have. They could not answer the question "What day is it?"
I had an interesting conversation with the other kindergarten teacher while we were supervising afternoon recess during the second day I was there.
KT: I got a really good class for my last year of teaching.
ME: Oh, you're retiring this year?
KT: Yes, after 37 years of teaching.
Me: Wow, have you been teaching kindergarten all this time?
KT: Yes, mostly. I taught first grade for a few years when I started, but otherwise it's been kindergarten the whole time.
Me: Wow.
KT: Well, I don't care for it as much now as I used to. All the work they make these kids do now...
Me:...
KT: Yeah, a lot has changed.
I could bite my tongue no longer.
Me: Well, I actually taught kindergarten in Korea, and compared to the Koreans, these students have it easy.
KT:...what?
Me: Yeah, they are very serious about education. They do lots of writing, learn to read in English, etc.
KT: Well, those kids are not as young as these ones.
(Where did she get that idea?)
Me: No, they are the same age. Some are even younger. The youngest student at my school had just turned 4 years old when he started.
KT:...
Me: It's just a kindergarten, all taught in English so the kids can have a better understanding of English when they start elementary school. They have little science lessons, math lessons, geography lessons, etc.
KT: Well, with all the stuff they make us do here, we just don't have time for that. (but Koreans who are in preschool 4 1/2 hours a day can manage to squeeze it in?) Plus, we get no support from the parents. They expect us to do all the work, and many of them do not help the kids at home at all. They don't care what goes on at school.

I am sure the teacher is right when she says they do not have time for other stuff. And I am also sure she was telling the truth when she said the parents don't care. Most of these parents obviously did not take the time to teach their kids their kids anything before starting school. I'm not saying the parents should have sat down and tried to get their 5 year olds to read Finnegan's Wake, but come on, the alphabet? Is that too much to ask? By February, shouldn't a kindergartner be able to write his/her name? Shouldn't he/she know the days of the week? Shouldn't he/she be able to write the numbers 1-10?
Sigh. If I ever have kids, it makes me want to home school them, at least for kindergarten. Because even for the parents that did teach their kids some basics before starting school, the kid's still stuck in school for 7 hours a day doing cut and paste work/art sheets, rather than learning anything really useful. These kids are being babied, and while they are young, they are not babies. All of the Koreans are not born smarter than American children. They are pushed (too hard, yes) and they learn. I think it's okay to try and make kindergartners learn, and do a little work in school. America needs to set the bar higher.

(not?) Oddly enough, when we played around the world with the reading flashcards, one student was obviously a better reader than all the other students, and easily made it "around the world" with hardly any students giving her real competition. Her last name-Myong. One guess as to what her ethnicity is.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

The Situation

Shout out to Mike Sorrentino!
As for the other situation, here's an update. A few days, a week, I have no concept of time anymore, after contacting Senator Kirk's office and resubmitting all my papers, my original fingerprints came back to me. There was a sticker on the envelope saying something about not being able to deliver it to the address I'd written. I compared it to the one they emailed me, and the one on their website. It was the same. Dunno. I also don't know where my fingerprints were for the past month. But now I had some thinking to do.
Through no fault of my own, I was over a week late arriving in Korea the first time. It was stressful. And rushed. I missed my whole week of training, securing my permanent position on my boss's sh*t list.
I didn't want that again. I had lost almost a month. I had to resubmit my background check for the apostille. Then, after I got those back I had to mail them to my recruiter in Korea, wait for my visa number, then once I had that I could make an appointment to get my visa at the consulate, which last time took about a week to get in, then go back in 3 days to pick up my new visa. Assuming there were no more problems, it was proooooooooobably doable. However I kept having flashbacks to May of 2010, and how terrible I felt, all the stress and rushing, and frosty receptions at work. I couldn't chance it. So I emailed my recruiter, and told her I was sorry but I would be unable to get the documents in time. I expected to get some response from her. I got nothing.
I've decided to give myself the extra month that I lost, and try to find a job starting in April. I hated to turn down what I had, but I felt I had little choice. So I've started the job hunt over. Now, in addition to getting that &$*K@?# apostille, I also have to get all my other documents again to submit to my new recruiter. But the diploma, state apostille, transcript, pictures, medical papers, etc. I can get. Those are no problem, just time consuming. Most importantly, get the FBI background check apostilled. So I looked up a new courier service, hopefully one with a legit address this time. Not wanting to make the same mistake twice, I decided on using FedEx rather than the USPS to mail my documents.

I carefully read the directions on US Legalization's website. Stated very plainly was to include a prepaid return envelope so that they could mail my documents back to me. The only FedEx drop off location in Princeton is a self service kiosk in the foyer of a bank. Wanting to make sure I did this with no mess ups, I decided to drive to Peru, a town about 20 minutes away, and go to the FedEx drop off location there so I could talk to a real person. I checked and double checked to make sure I had all my documents in order before leaving. Background check-CHECK! Letter to US Legalization stating what I needed and what country it was for-CHECK! Payment-CHECK! All I needed was my return envelope and I had it all. So I drove to the FedEx in Peru. I was greeted by an unfriendly older woman looking at me and rudely saying "Yes?"
Despite my less than warm reception, I politely said I had some papers I needed to send, and I also needed to send with them a prepaid return envelope. She looked at me like I'd asked her for a coffee and a glazed donut.
"We don't do THAT here!" Her response was almost a sneer, like I'd sullied FedEx's good name by even asking for such a thing.
I looked at her blankly. It took me a minute to comprehend. I wanted to give FedEx money to pay for a service. They said no. Where is the logic, FedEx?
She said I could send onea label, and send then the other label marked "pay upon delivery" meaning after it was delivered, I would be billed. Ummm, wouldn't you rather have the money upfront?
I continued looking blankly at her "So...it's basically the same thing?"
She sighed ever so slightly "No. You get billed for this one after it's sent." Still failing to see any difference, but not wanting to mail my precious background check following anything less than the exact instructions I was given, I went out to my car to make some calls. The first place I called was US Legalization. Despite it's sort of official sounding name, from my understanding, US Legalization is nothing more than some people who live relatively close to DC and are willing to take documents to the offices' walk up windows to get apostilles and such.
I explained to the lady who answered the phone my predicament. She groaned, and said "You don't TELL them it's a return. You just buy the envelope and label." She rambled on a bunch of stuff that made zero sense to me, something about airbills, and writing my credit card number on that, and sending my credit card security code number on a post it note stuck to the airbill. Dodgy. I had no idea what she was talking about. So I just kept saying ok. I got off the phone with her and called my mom. She's a smart lady. Aaron FedExes a lot with his work, so she suggested I call him. He told me to buy two envelopes and two labels, and mail it that way. Ok, it sounded simple enough. I went back in and asked the unfriendly FedEx lady if I could buy two labels and two envelopes. She said no, and explained that FedEx had never had such a policy... she paused...and she didn't know if any of their competitors did either.
I'm clearly no expert on shipping, but I do know the USPS does not get all hot and bothered if I want to buy a stamp for a self addressed stamped envelope. So in answer to her question, yes, FedEx's competitors DO allow such a practice.
So I left FedEx, still carrying my documents. My trip to Peru only served to waste two gallons of gas. Meanwhile my mom continued to Google about FedEx. I decided to check out the kiosk at the bank. They had envelopes, and labels. Slightly confusing, so I took two labels and two envelopes, and went home. I wanted my mom's expert opinion. We decided a safer bet would be to buy our labels on FedEx's website. So we stumbled our way through that. Funny thing, the website did allow me to buy two labels. Half an hour late I drove back to the bank. I put my labels in the plastic cases and attached them to the envelopes. I put one envelope inside the other, along with my documents. I sealed the envelope. I looked at it one last time to make sure everything was correct, and I dropped it into the slot.

The hard part! I've been in contact with several recruiters. The answer I keep getting is "Oh, you can't find a job starting in April. The Korean school year starts in March. No one is hiring then."
We shall see. Please, no more hurdles.

I recently had to supervise one special ed student doing some computer work at one of the schools I sub at. One student. For 50 minutes. Working on a computer program I don't know how to use, while wearing headphones. Needless to say it was a long 50 minutes. The computer lab is also the library at this particular school, so I started looking at the titles of the books around where I was sitting, which happened to be the history/geography section. In addition to having a category of books called "Indians" I also found the following titles Getting to Know the Two Vietnams, West Germany in Pictures, Great American Negroes, and The Soviet Union: A Portrait. Yep.